🤰🏻 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a family drama unfolding. 😱 I'm a mom-to-be, 30 weeks along with my first little one. 👶🏽 My amazing partner and I are in an interracial relationship (I'm white, he's black), and we couldn't be more excited to start our family. 🥰 But, as it turns out, not everyone shares our enthusiasm... especially when it comes to watching their language. 😬 Get ready for a wild ride as I navigate the ups and downs of dealing with my mom's shocking choice of words! 🎢
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🏠 Family Drama Unfolds 😱
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🛢️ Dad's Jobless Situation 😬
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🤬 Mom's Frustration Boils Over
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😳 The Shocking Slur
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🚫 Shutting Down the Slur
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🐶 Suggesting an Alternative
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🗣️ Challenging Mom's Language
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😡 Putting My Foot Down
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🙅🏻♀️ No Tolerance Policy
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🤔 AITA for Taking a Stand?
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👩👧 Doubting Mom's Trustworthiness
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🚨 Mom's Racist Rant: Will She Ever Meet Her Granddaughter? 😱
Well, well, well... looks like we've got a real family feud brewing! 🔥 My mom dropped a jaw-dropping racial slur while venting about my dad, and let's just say, I was NOT having it. 🙅🏻♀️ I called her out, suggested alternatives, and even threatened to keep her from meeting her granddaughter if she doesn't clean up her act. 😤 But, in true mom fashion, she brushed me off and hung up! 📞 The nerve! 😡 Now, I'm left wondering if I was too harsh or if I'm right to stand my ground. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! 🍿
Protecting your child from racism? NTA, no question about it! 🙌
joanclaytonesq | joanclaytonesq
Standing up against racism in the family. NTA 👏
AdamOfIzalith | AdamOfIzalith
Black woman cautions OP on letting racist grandma near child 🚫
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Partner won't welcome hidden racist grandma around baby and family 😔
Dizzy-Sheepherder-52 | Dizzy-Sheepherder-52
NTA commenter shares personal experience with racism in relationships.
LordVetittynari | LordVetittynari
NTA but ESH for not telling partner about racist mother's behavior 😕
WorriedPreparation5 | WorriedPreparation5
Protecting the little one from family racism 🙌
Mindless_Nail_9446 | Mindless_Nail_9446
NTA commenter exposes the escalation of excuses into blatant racism 🤨
Ramguy2014 | Ramguy2014
🤔 ESH. Acknowledge the bigotry problem and don't hide it.
maddallena | maddallena
"Flat out racist" grandma banned from baby meeting. NTA.
blacksyzygy | blacksyzygy
Standing up to racist family members, NTA 🙌🏽
sparklingYoongi | sparklingYoongi
Partner's right to know about grandma's racism. NTA
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Protecting your daughter and husband is more important than being fair. 👏
alittleamgpie | alittleamgpie
Kudos to commenter for keeping family away from racist grandma 💯
ImMisterWumbo | ImMisterWumbo
Standing up to family's racism earns NTA's respect 👏
notsowise_nz | notsowise_nz
Confronting racism: ESH except hubby, call it out to protect daughter 👊
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Standing up against hate speech and bigotry is always right! ✊
gooliamac | gooliamac
Protecting children from racism is crucial. 🥴
AcceptableHome3 | AcceptableHome3
Grandpa learned to change, grandma refused to. NTA.
MadWitchLibrarian | MadWitchLibrarian
NTA commenter warns of potential harm from racist grandma.
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Explaining racism to older family members can be difficult 😔
HavePlushieWillTalk | HavePlushieWillTalk
Expressing disbelief and shock at the use of a racist slur.
WhatsLeftofitanyway | WhatsLeftofitanyway
Protecting children from racist family members. You're not alone. NTA 👏
BendingCollegeGrad | BendingCollegeGrad
NTA calls out racist language in a concise message 👏
No-Locksmith-8590 | No-Locksmith-8590
Standing up against racism, even with family, is necessary. ✊
disco_has_been | disco_has_been
NTA, and setting boundaries with toxic family members is important 👍
chamacchan | chamacchan
NTA advises OP on potential future harm from grandma's beliefs 😔
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Setting boundaries for loved ones can lead to positive change 👍
NewLife_21 | NewLife_21
Heartbreaking effect of family's racism on biracial grandchild 😢
tenaseechick | tenaseechick
Protecting biracial kids from racist grandma 🚫
DiscoBoi95 | DiscoBoi95
Protecting the baby from toxic grandparents. 🙏
HernandezGirl | HernandezGirl
NTA. Grandmother's racism is not excusable. Protect your daughter. 🚫
rabidturbofox | rabidturbofox
Protect your biracial child from your mother's racist rants! 🙌
penchair1302 | penchair1302
Protect your family, make boundaries clear and cut her off. 🔪
T00narmy1 | T00narmy1
NTA. Allies against racism are crucial for a safer society 👏
River_Song47 | River_Song47
Protecting our babies is our top priority 👨🏻🎤💙
Formal_Instruction_3 | Formal_Instruction_3
NTA shows empathy for grandma, hoping she'll change her ways.
NeverRarelySometimes | NeverRarelySometimes
Protecting partner's dignity and baby's future feelings. 💪 NTA!
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Standing up against racism to protect family. NTA 👍🏽
Emergent-Sea | Emergent-Sea
NTA, good job protecting your family from racism 👏
turningtides618 | turningtides618
Protecting child from racist grandmother - NTA comment
bubbles963146 | bubbles963146
Protecting your child from toxicity. 👏
Appropriate_Pressure | Appropriate_Pressure
Support for OP's decision to fight against racism in family 👏
Chavolini | Chavolini
Setting boundaries with family can be difficult but necessary 👍
CeelaChathArrna | CeelaChathArrna
Love for OP standing up against racism 👏 NTA
MissSuzyQ | MissSuzyQ
Choosing family over toxicity. 💯
Fearless_Act_3698 | Fearless_Act_3698
NTA. Grandma's racist rants are unacceptable around children 🚫👎
SL8Rgirl | SL8Rgirl
Dealing with a racist grandma: when to draw the line 🤔
Unique-Yam | Unique-Yam
NTA commenter educates on subtle racism and offense towards family.
Bito__ | Bito__
NTA commenter condemns racism and defends Black people passionately 👏
KimKsPsoriasis | KimKsPsoriasis
NTA, supportive comment on interracial relationships and wishing well.
23_GenericRedittor | 23_GenericRedittor
Growing up mixed, racism is never acceptable. Period. 👏
Starryeyedblond | Starryeyedblond
Confronting racist thoughts and actions, and ways to handle family conflicts. ✊
Seguefare | Seguefare
Protecting your baby from toxic family members 💪
Arroz_frijoles1991 | Arroz_frijoles1991
NTA. Tough love may be necessary to protect your family 👏
dickvanexel | dickvanexel
Controlling who meets your baby is your right. NTA 👍
BladeEdge5452 | BladeEdge5452
Cutting racist family out of your life is hard but necessary 💪
Bunizilla | Bunizilla
NTA. Commenter highlights the significance of the grandmother's word choice.
LittleAgoo | LittleAgoo
Cutting off racists, even family, is crucial - NTA
Born-Ad-6687 | Born-Ad-6687
Depriving a grandmother of seeing her grandkid is selfish 🙅
flamewizzy21 | flamewizzy21
Agreeing with OP's decision to ban racist grandma from meeting baby.
Avari_Fenyx | Avari_Fenyx
Setting boundaries with family is hard, but necessary. 👍
thejexorcist | thejexorcist
Cutting contact with racist grandma is best for baby's safety. 👶❌👵
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Cutting out racist family members is necessary. NTA.
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NTA, but fixing language isn't enough. Address underlying racism. 👏
Alon945 | Alon945
Agreeing with OP's decision to call out grandma's racism. ✊
Dependent-Welcome285 | Dependent-Welcome285
Join r/raisedbynarcissists for clarity on OP's NTA situation.
Binx_da_gay_cat | Binx_da_gay_cat
