Blindsided on Thanksgiving: Parents Ambush Daughter with Ex-BF and His Kid! 😠

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🚨 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a juicy family drama on our hands! 🍿 Meet our 26-year-old leading lady, who's found herself in quite the pickle with her meddling parents and ex-boyfriend, Tom. 😬 This tale has it all: a surprise baby, a Thanksgiving ambush, and a whole lot of boundary-crossing! 🙅‍♀️ So, grab your popcorn and let's dive into this messy situation to find out if our girl is the a-hole or if her parents need a serious reality check! 🤔

🚨 Family Drama Alert! 🚨

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👨‍👩‍👦 Parents Played Matchmaker 💑

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🍼 Baby Bombshell 💣

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🙅‍♀️ Boundaries Set, Parents Respect... For Now 🤐

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🦃 Thanksgiving Surprise! 😱

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🏃‍♀️ Nope, I'm Outta Here! 🚗💨

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👨‍👩‍👦 Parents Still Consider Ex 'Family' 🤦‍♀️

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😡 Infuriated by Parents' Meddling 🤬

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🙅‍♀️ Moved On and Not Looking Back 💁‍♀️

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📵 Phone Off, Drama Avoided... For Now 😒

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🗑️ Delete, Delete, Delete 🚮

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🎄 Christmas Plans Revealed 🎅

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🙅‍♀️ My Way or the Highway 🛣️

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😢 Parents Play the Guilt Card 🃏

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😱 Parents Ambush Daughter with Ex-BF & Secret Love Child at Thanksgiving! 🦃👶

Well, well, well... looks like our leading lady's parents just can't let go of their dream son-in-law, even after their daughter called it quits! 🙅‍♀️ They pulled the ultimate Thanksgiving surprise by inviting her ex, Tom, and his secret love child to dinner without giving her a heads up. 😱 Talk about awkward! 🍽️ Our girl wasn't having any of it and hightailed it outta there faster than you can say "pass the cranberry sauce!" 🏃‍♀️💨 Now, her parents are playing the guilt card, accusing her of being cruel for not wanting to play happy family with her ex and his kid. 😢 But our leading lady is standing her ground, even if it means missing out on some holiday fun. 🎄 Let's see what the internet has to say about this turkey of a situation! 🦃🍿

Ex-BF's family needs to respect boundaries. NTA.

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Chosen family over blood? NTA, make a backup plan! 🙌

paragontrigger | paragontrigger

NTA, becoming a stepparent is a huge undertaking, and not one that should be taken if you have any doubts. Your parents are interfering. Tom needs to focus on being a stepparent and finding a partner who wants what he wants. 😍

walnutwithteeth | walnutwithteeth

Cut toxic family ties until they prioritize you and respect you. 🚪

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

Parents forcing ex-BF back into daughter's life on Thanksgiving. NTA stands up.

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Setting boundaries with pushy parents. NTA, good luck! 🙏

TonosamaACDC | TonosamaACDC

Boundaries crossed: Ex-BF and his child ambushed on Thanksgiving. NTA.

risen87 | risen87

Parents meddled and ex-BF ambushed with kid? NTA here. 😠

WholeAd2742 | WholeAd2742

Get ready for a cheesy but heartwarming movie plot! 🎄

Happy-Atmosphere-914 | Happy-Atmosphere-914

Sole custody with a stalker? NC is the best choice. NTA 👍

HeddyL2627 | HeddyL2627

Parents ambush daughter with ex-BF and his kid! NTA for setting boundaries.

junglemice | junglemice

Ex-BF's creepy Thanksgiving ambush: commenter questions parents' actions.

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Parents' Thanksgiving surprise creates unbearable situation for NTA commenter

bhejda | bhejda

Ex-BF spending holidays with OP's family instead of his own? Creepy.

One-Cryptographer-39 | One-Cryptographer-39

Setting boundaries with family: NTA stands up for herself 💪

WiseBad1 | WiseBad1

Maintaining a relationship with an ex's family, but respecting boundaries. 👍

Annasittonrogers | Annasittonrogers

Sarcastic burn on an irresponsible parent. 😎

Accomplished_Set4862 | Accomplished_Set4862

Clear boundaries crossed by ex-BF and his kid. NTA.

Maldeni | Maldeni

Ex-BF and his kid invited to Thanksgiving, NTA handles it gracefully.

RezeTheGreat | RezeTheGreat

Parents invite ex-BF and his kid to Thanksgiving, OP is NTA

SCA_CH | SCA_CH

Stand your ground and prioritize your well-being. 💪

jammy913 | jammy913

Parents prioritize fantasy family, fail daughter. NTA. 😠

ctortan | ctortan

Parents invite ex-BF and his kid on Thanksgiving, daughter's NTA

DoesntLikeTurtles | DoesntLikeTurtles

Parents invite ex-BF and his kid on Thanksgiving without daughter's consent. NTA.

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

Setting boundaries with family after inappropriate Thanksgiving ambush. 🙏

MikkiTh | MikkiTh

Unwavering boundaries and questionable parenting decisions. NTA 😠

Fun-Statistician-550 | Fun-Statistician-550

Setting boundaries: Admirable move for walking out on Thanksgiving 🦃

lizfour | lizfour

NTA for not wanting to play house with surprise kid 👏

Key-Seaweed-4581 | Key-Seaweed-4581

Parents put daughter in awkward position, commenter calls them out.

SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123

Choosing between a couple-year boyfriend or their 26yo daughter 👀 #NTA

yuhju | yuhju

Breaking up was the right thing. Don't let them guilt-trip you. 💪

MbMinx | MbMinx

Setting boundaries pays off, even if it's tough. 💪

Bright_Sea_7567 | Bright_Sea_7567

OP not the a**hole, but parents and ex-BF are.

OwnedByACrazyCat | OwnedByACrazyCat

Justified pettiness, let them deal with their mistake 🙌

mikerri | mikerri

Setting boundaries with family for your own sanity. 🙏

angrybee93 | angrybee93

Parents choose ex-BF over daughter on Thanksgiving. NTA. 😠

Ksharonmcg | Ksharonmcg

Supportive comment, suggests humorous revenge plan. NTA.

PA_Archer | PA_Archer

Cutting off toxic parents and protecting yourself from legal battles 💪

GullibleNerd88 | GullibleNerd88

Parents ambush daughter with ex-BF and his kid!🤯 NTA

Anseranas | Anseranas

Choosing ex-BF over daughter: NTA's dad did the same 🤷‍♀️

KatieKat88552 | KatieKat88552

Awkward Thanksgiving with ex-BF who's also adopted brother? NTA

nickelangelo2009 | nickelangelo2009

Avoid the drama with a fake boyfriend this Christmas! 😏

KSknitter | KSknitter

Skipping Christmas after Thanksgiving ambush. Ultimatum: date Tom or else.

One-Arachnid-2119 | One-Arachnid-2119

Parents prioritizing ex-BF with child over own daughter is super weird 😑

Remarkable_Annual302 | Remarkable_Annual302

Ex-BF and his kid ambushed on Thanksgiving, possible stalker warning 😠

AggieBax | AggieBax

NTA commenter refuses to tolerate ex-BF's family ambush 💯

SockFullOfNickles | SockFullOfNickles

Setting boundaries with toxic family members is necessary 👍

Transmutagen | Transmutagen

Daughter's parents force her to choose between them and ex-BF with kid. Commenter sympathizes with daughter and criticizes parents.

markbrev | markbrev

Parents ambush daughter with ex and his kid, NTA stands up

Kkarotcake | Kkarotcake

Choosing ex-BF's kid over own grandkids? NTA stands firm. 😠

WTFISWRONGW-ME | WTFISWRONGW-ME

Creative revenge plan for parents ambushing ex-BF on Thanksgiving 🤔

Internal-Original-42 | Internal-Original-42

NTA. You get to make your own choices 👏

BeadsAndReads | BeadsAndReads

Parents need to chill and respect your boundaries. 🙏

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Parents value grandchild over daughter, NTA to move on 🙏

kevwelch | kevwelch

Stand your ground and don't let them guilt trip you! 💪

refillman | refillman

Cutting off toxic family members is necessary for self-preservation. 👌

Probably_A_Fucker | Probably_A_Fucker

Parents and ex-boyfriend disrespect daughter's decisions and wishes. NTA.

new_moony | new_moony

Ex-BF ambush on Thanksgiving, realistic ending, NTA stands ground 😊

murder_maven | murder_maven

Set clear boundaries with parents, plan a sunny vacation 🌞

FPFan | FPFan

NTA and no ma'am!! 😠 A mushroom cloud would have risen over that house.

SomethingWicked1974 | SomethingWicked1974

Parents ambush daughter with ex and his kid? NTA, just no. 💔

Im_a_surly_duck | Im_a_surly_duck

Savage response to mom's love for ex-BF on Thanksgiving. 🤬

UncleDangerSmith | UncleDangerSmith

Setting boundaries with parents who play surrogate grandparents. #NTA 😠

Powerful_Ad_1239 | Powerful_Ad_1239

Will fake grandkid make up for losing access to future grandkids? NTA.

Queen_of_skys | Queen_of_skys

Setting boundaries is not being petty, it's self-care. 👏

StrykerC13 | StrykerC13

Dodged a bomb! Ex-BF and parents disrespect boundaries 😱

Any_Veterinarian1046 | Any_Veterinarian1046

Curious about OP's distance from family and ex-boyfriend's location.

monkeyskin | monkeyskin

Family practically adopts ex-BF, tell them it'd be weird to date new brother 🤷🏼‍♀️

lucimme | lucimme

Family Thanksgiving turns into sitcom-like disaster. Commenter calls out stupidity.

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Stand your ground, celebrate holidays without manipulative parents and ex 💪

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Parents ambushed daughter with ex-BF on Thanksgiving. NTA for refusing.

TheRedSkittle4 | TheRedSkittle4

Cut parents out of life for inviting ex-BF on Thanksgiving 😱

Mata_El_Maricon | Mata_El_Maricon

"No stepkids" policy gaining popularity, NTA for setting boundaries!

JuliaX1984 | JuliaX1984

Putting yourself first and taking a break 😊

Old_Guard_9908 | Old_Guard_9908

Parents crossed a line; guilt-tripping to force reunion is unacceptable. 😠

RichPerformance2369 | RichPerformance2369

Take control and enjoy Christmas with trustworthy company. #NTA 🎄

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Daughter not the a**hole for not wanting ex at Thanksgiving 🤷‍♀️

hdean667 | hdean667

Setting boundaries is healthy and fair. NTA 👍

Impressive_Alarm_309 | Impressive_Alarm_309

Daughter stands up to parents picking ex-BF over her. NTA 👏

SirEDCaLot | SirEDCaLot

NTA, but parents ambushed ex-BF and his kid on Thanksgiving 😱

Illustrious-Duck1681 | Illustrious-Duck1681

Family chooses non-relative child over own daughter. NTA.

thechipperhalf | thechipperhalf

New BF, old problems: Parents and ex cause holiday drama. 🎄

Acceptable_Total_285 | Acceptable_Total_285

User slams parents for being 'f**king assholes' and calls out their reprehensible behavior towards Tom's son.

sheepking123123 | sheepking123123

Parents try to force unwanted life for grandkid, NTA.

brisemartel | brisemartel

Setting boundaries with parents. Supportive comment with a positive ending 😘

FinkAdele | FinkAdele

Parents invite ex-BF to Thanksgiving without daughter's consent. NTA.

Ninjurk | Ninjurk

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