We can trick ourselves into thinking we're in love, and sometimes we can't really tell if we are or not. We want to be in love, so we will twist words and actions so that we can believe they come from a place of love when really they don't. If you have been wondering whether or not you're in love but need a few signs, we have picked 12 signs that can help you come up with an answer. Now some of these things can be fixed and worked on, but you have to want things to get better. If you see these signs in your own relationship, it may mean you aren't really in love.
12 Signs You're Not Really In Love
1. You don't get excited to see them.
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When you meet up to go out or hang it's not a big deal and you'd rather be home watching chick flicks and drinking wine than be with them.
2. They don't cross your mind.
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A few days can go by and you haven't thought about them. Life goes on with or without them.
3. You don't share big news with them.
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When something exciting happens, they aren't the first person who pops into your head. You'll tell them later when you see them or mention it in passing conversation if you have to.
4. There's really no chemistry anymore.
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Conversation is bland, you don't joke around, and just forget about what goes on in the bedroom... sleeping is what goes on in there.
5. You don't make plans.
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If you have time, you guess you can see them. But the farthest ahead you plan on seeing them is maybe at the end of the day.
6. You don't put in effort.
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You don't give anything back to your relationship because it doesn't seem worth it to you.
7. You feel insecure.
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You can't relax and be yourself around them and your relationship feels rocky anyway.
8. You're waiting for a reason to break up.
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Anything could be the last straw. You need something to happen so you can get mad and finally end things.
9. You judge them.
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You are constantly judging and criticizing everything they say or do. You are annoyed 24/7 even just thinking about them.
10. You don't compliment them.
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You don't tell them they look nice today or tell them what you like about their personality. You don't even know what you could compliment them about.
11. Your relationship isn't easy.
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It's almost too much work and you don't see why you're putting in all this effort for something you aren't sure you really want.
12. You don't want to say "I love you."
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You don't want to say it and you don't mean it when you do say it. The spark is gone, if it ever was there, and it's time to move on.
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