🔥 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of a man caught between his current wife and his ex. 😱 This guy left his ex-wife for "petty reasons" (his words, not ours! 🙊), but now finds himself in a sticky situation. His ex is struggling to make ends meet while raising their two teenage daughters. 💸 So, what does our conflicted hero do? He secretly starts sending his ex extra cash behind his current wife's back! 🤫 Uh-oh, this can't end well... 🍿
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🤫 Secretly Sending Extra Money to Ex 🙊
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😡 Wife Discovers the Secret and Feels Betrayed 💔
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😱 Man's Secret Money Transfers to Ex-Wife Exposed! 💸🙊
Well, well, well... looks like our guy's secret couldn't stay hidden forever! 🕵️♀️ His current wife eventually caught wind of the extra $2100 per month he was sneaking to his ex. 😬 She's accusing him of having an emotional affair and feels utterly betrayed. 💔 But wait, there's more! Our man claims he was just trying to keep the lights on and food on the table for his daughters. 🏠🍽️ So, is he a caring father or a sneaky a-hole? 🤔 The internet is about to weigh in, and you won't believe what they have to say! 🗣️
Missing information makes it hard to judge, but suspicious.
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Stepmom prioritizes herself over stepdaughters living in poverty 👮🏽👮🏽
Sharksmells | Sharksmells
Dad's decision to secretly support daughters causes marital issue. ESH.
Judgemental_Panda | Judgemental_Panda
Man prioritizes ex-wife's medical bills over current wife's feelings 😕
chopperThehopper | chopperThehopper
Combining finances means no unilateral decisions. YTA 🤢
MaxusBE | MaxusBE
User calls out dad for sending shared finances to kids behind wife's back 😒
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Divided opinions on whether dad crossed a line to help ex's family 🤔
StaceysMomPlus2more | StaceysMomPlus2more
Divorce may be necessary if current wife doesn't understand responsibility 🙅
Veridical_Perception | Veridical_Perception
Shared finances mean YTA for using HER money without consent 👍
TheBreadToYourPigeon | TheBreadToYourPigeon
YTA: Going behind your wife's back was not a good move 😓
wubbly-wump | wubbly-wump
Supporting struggling daughters = NTA, consider new child support plan 💰
Less-Statistician546 | Less-Statistician546
OP is YTA for lying to his wife about helping his children ⚖️
nyancat645 | nyancat645
User calls out OP for lack of respect towards wives
dragon-queen | dragon-queen
Financially supporting ex-wife and neglecting current wife makes YTA 💸
netnet1014 | netnet1014
Everyone's at fault: ex-wife for asking for more money, current wife for jumping to conclusions, and OP for disregarding his current wife's feelings and decision.
Newboi001 | Newboi001
Shared finances, going behind wife's back, and supporting children. ESH.
Nyukorin | Nyukorin
Combined finances = joint decisions. YTA crossed the line 👍
lrhol | lrhol
Financial conflicts arise between husband and wife's ex-wife.
introverted_smallfry | introverted_smallfry
Financial infidelity can ruin relationships. YTA is warned.
TheDevilsAdvokaat | TheDevilsAdvokaat
Financial conflict arises in dad's decision to keep daughters safe
Runny_yoke | Runny_yoke
Divided comment section on a dad's controversial decision 🤔
TheHedonia | TheHedonia
User calls out OP for ignoring wife's say in finances. YTA 🤬
anonego7 | anonego7
Harsh criticism for dad's decision to let ex-wife raise kids
OriginalFinnah | OriginalFinnah
Divorced dad receives criticism for not paying $1500/month child support. YTA.
AndriaRenee | AndriaRenee
A commenter calls out a dad for prioritizing his daughters over his wife, with strong disapproval. 💔
Raging_Dragon_9999 | Raging_Dragon_9999
Lying to your wife is not the solution 🙅. Finding a compromise is key 👌
dessertandcheese | dessertandcheese
Divorced dad's questionable approach to parenting sparks YTA verdict.
AndriaRenee | AndriaRenee
Defending a father's love for his daughters against harsh criticism.
MasterpieceOk4688 | MasterpieceOk4688
User calls out dad for stealing from wife to pay ex.
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Noble intentions, but hiding from your wife isn't right. NTA.
ToxicLogics | ToxicLogics
User calls out dad for stealing from wife's finances 💰
dancingpianofairy | dancingpianofairy
Should the dad take the kids and leave? 🤔
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Financial situation questioned in dad's efforts to protect daughters.
rosered936 | rosered936
Red flags everywhere. 🚩🚩🚩 Don't betray your spouse's trust.
Amazing-Squash | Amazing-Squash
A scathing comment calls out the dad's behavior as deplorable.
bpdsuperstar | bpdsuperstar
Putting your kids first is always the right choice 👨👨
Amythist35 | Amythist35
Financial infidelity - OP betrayed his wife's trust and loyalty 💰💔
FirstFarmOnTheLeft | FirstFarmOnTheLeft
User calls out dad for emotional and financial cheating 💯
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Combining finances without consent? YTA according to comments 🙄
smolrivercat | smolrivercat
Man is called out for secretly giving money to ex-wife.
atreides85 | atreides85
🚨 YTA for betraying your wife's trust and stealing her money
ClubSoda98 | ClubSoda98
Helping your ex is NTA, but going behind your wife's back is YTA 🤷♂️
toomuchswiping | toomuchswiping
Joint account breach and excessive child support divides opinion 💪
Godofallu | Godofallu
Going behind your spouse's back with finances is always wrong 👎
SmoothLikeButter13 | SmoothLikeButter13
User questions OP's motives and wonders about missing details 🤔
fgvkfea615 | fgvkfea615
Prioritize your wife's needs, not your ex's. YTA ❌
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Single parent calls out dad's betrayal in YTA judgment 👎
Idontwanttomake1 | Idontwanttomake1
Financial infidelity is worse than old-fashioned infidelity? YTA 🤔
WhackAMoleWings | WhackAMoleWings
User calls dad out for neglecting daughters' needs for ex's bills 👎
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Don't hide things from your partner, YTA 🚫💍
TheAlbatrossVI | TheAlbatrossVI
Money issues and exes causing friction in family finances.
JustMeHere8888 | JustMeHere8888
User calls out dad for going behind wife's back 👍
hibernativenaptosis | hibernativenaptosis
Going behind your wife's back makes YTA, but help your kids if you can 🙏
Angelbaby103 | Angelbaby103
Man spends wife's money on ex-wife, breaks trust. YTA 👎
FunkyAssPenguin | FunkyAssPenguin
Going behind your wife's back and changing direct deposit is disgusting 😠
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Ex-partner's financial issues, comment suggests not helping. YTA.
treborcj | treborcj
Financial decisions behind spouse's back? YTA. Counseling recommended 🙏
Bella_Lunatic | Bella_Lunatic
User calls out OP for disrespecting his wife in secret.
BupiBear | BupiBear
Making tough choices: Commenter calls out dad for not taking legal action 👍
NodakCollector | NodakCollector
Divided opinions on the dad's decision to keep daughters safe.
Goaerne | Goaerne
User calls out YTA for betraying current wife for ex-wife.
mrsmenji | mrsmenji
Money matters. What's the financial arrangement with ex and current wife?
Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze
User asks for info to determine if man is an AH
SuperWomanUSA | SuperWomanUSA
Financial infidelity is a no-go. Apologize and hope for forgiveness 💔
greentea1985 | greentea1985
User calls out dad for selfish and disrespectful behavior.
HoneyMCMLXXIII | HoneyMCMLXXIII
Deceitful dad gets called out for being the a**hole 👎
PurpleReign_1999 | PurpleReign_1999
Going behind her back was wrong 😓 but he does need to support his daughters 👧👧
RyzenTide | RyzenTide
Man accused of stealing from family to please ex-wife 👤👮
Icy-Pay6766 | Icy-Pay6766
Deceptive dad puts daughters first, but loses wife's trust 😕
MidwestMSW | MidwestMSW
Father admits to avoiding wife, commenters call him out for it 😑
AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18
Hiding help from current wife - YTA according to commenter.
Antique-Criticism225 | Antique-Criticism225
Going behind wife's back to keep daughters safe - YTA 😕
David5051 | David5051
Stealing wife's money to keep daughters off streets - YTA 👎
Vittaprem | Vittaprem
Co-parenting conflicts arise in comment section 🤦♂️
nishelle90 | nishelle90
Going behind your wife's back? YTA according to commenters 🤷♂️
jewelsolo | jewelsolo
User calls out OP for disrespecting current wife financially 😒
esmithedm | esmithedm
Helping your ex-wife is great but going behind your wife's back is a**hole move 😑
Interesting-Two946 | Interesting-Two946
YTA for lying about child support, she has a right.
envy-adams | envy-adams
Going behind your partner's back makes YTA, push for custody. 💎
Stunt57 | Stunt57
YTA: Relationship advice and compromise needed 🤔
DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser
Parent seeks advice on child support and expenses for daughters.
Worth-Trouble2911 | Worth-Trouble2911