Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy family drama brewing. 🍵 My sister's about to pop out a baby and wants the whole fam there for the big show. 🤰👪 But here's the thing - I'm not sure I can handle all the blood, sweat, and tears. 😬 I mean, have you SEEN a birth video? 😱 Traumatizing stuff. Now sis is p*ssed that I'm ruining her perfect labor plan. 😤 Mom's not happy with me either. 🙄 I feel guilty AF, but also... boundaries, right? 🤷♀️
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Sister's Home Birth Plans 🤰👶
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Assumed I'd Be There Too 😳
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Sis Surprised by My Refusal 😲
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Offered Other Support, Just Not During Birth 🙅♀️
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Mom Calls Me Squeamish 🙄
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I Get Sis is Emotional, But... 😕
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Happy to Help After Baby Arrives 👶❤️
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So, Am I the A-hole? 🤔
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Family Feud: To Birth or Not to Birth? 👶🔥
Whew, talk about a sticky situation! 😅 On one hand, I totally get wanting to support my sis during this major life event. 👭❤️ But on the other hand, the thought of being front row for the bloody miracle of birth has me shook. 😱 I offered to help in other ways, like cooking and cleaning, but apparently that's not good enough. 🙅♀️ Now I'm feeling guilty for stressing out my very pregnant sister. 😔 But honestly, I think I'd be more of a liability than a help in the delivery room. 🤢 I love my sis and my future niece/nephew, but I gotta draw the line somewhere, right? 🤷♀️ Let's see what the internet thinks of this family drama! 🍿👀
Mother-to-be's 'perfect plan' raises concerns about handling complications 🤔
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Sibling drama, golden child, and no a-hole here. 😍
refill_lady | refill_lady
Concerned commenter questions safety of sister's home birth plan. 😱
Remote-Equipment-340 | Remote-Equipment-340
Support for respecting birth preferences and individual comfort levels ❤
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NTA's birth plan gets roasted with laughter 😂
CauliflowerKlutzy189 | CauliflowerKlutzy189
Giving birth is gnarly AF! NTA for not wanting spectators 👌
invomitous-rex | invomitous-rex
Listen to your inner voice, avoid birth complications. #NTA
7dayweekendgirl | 7dayweekendgirl
Respect boundaries, don't assume others are okay with plans. ✌🏻
CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000
The commenter calls out the sister's entitlement, while poking fun at the idea of a 'perfect labor plan' 🤣
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Setting boundaries: NTA doesn't want to witness sister's birth 🙇
majere616 | majere616
NTA. Birth plan forgotten? Mother enabling behavior, sorry 😞
16CatsInATrenchcoat | 16CatsInATrenchcoat
Respectful NTA sister sets healthy boundaries for birth preferences ✌️
jammy913 | jammy913
Setting boundaries with entitled sister. NTA 👍
cassowary32 | cassowary32
Supportive comment validates sister's choice, encourages standing ground 👏
fluffsnail | fluffsnail
Setting boundaries: commenter refuses to be an emotional support animal 🙅♂️
spiritfiend | spiritfiend
Witnessing a birth can be both beautiful and traumatizing. NTA.
Calm-Parsnip5849 | Calm-Parsnip5849
NTA, statistically more people make labor longer. Rigid birth plans need support, not disdain. 👍
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Setting boundaries is important for mental health 🙌
RiverSong_777 | RiverSong_777
Mom's narcissism causes family rift over home birth. You're NTA 👍
Realistic-Animator-3 | Realistic-Animator-3
Sister assumed perfect plan without asking, NTA for refusing.
Drayle171 | Drayle171
Not everyone wants to witness a birth, sister is being selfish 😷
EnvironmentalEgg7857 | EnvironmentalEgg7857
Having a baby is gory and gross, NTA for not watching 🤯
neverthelessidissent | neverthelessidissent
Giving birth is like torture, but first time was best 😅
Randa08 | Randa08
Woman defends not wanting family at her home birth 💪
Conscious-Ad6633 | Conscious-Ad6633
NTA finds humor in sister's unique approach to labor room.
Screamscaper | Screamscaper
Supporting during labor, not delivery, could be a compromise 👨👩👧👦
sparrowhawk75 | sparrowhawk75
Having a home birth and sister's selfish behavior. NTA 👍
ConnectionTop480 | ConnectionTop480
Supportive comment defends sister's decision not to attend birth.
coppeliuseyes | coppeliuseyes
A perfect labor plan that wasn't perfect 😱. NTA.
mrekon123 | mrekon123
Setting boundaries is important, NTA for not attending sister's birth 👍
Happy-Positive7696 | Happy-Positive7696
Giving birth with a big audience: 🤢 or 😎?
Mullberries | Mullberries
Predicting a chaotic birth scene with a hint of sarcasm 😅
Boopboopdedoop51 | Boopboopdedoop51
Sibling's request to be present at birth deemed 'weird' and 'bizarre' 🤨
Neither-Copy785 | Neither-Copy785
Pregnancy exhibitionist? NTA thinks so, but some disagree.
Square-Tap7392 | Square-Tap7392
Sister prioritizes 'performance' over safety during home birth. NTA.
OSUJillyBean | OSUJillyBean
Choosing not to attend sister's home birth. NTA.
Amaranth-13 | Amaranth-13
Respectful refusal to be in delivery room. NTA 👍
Thedarkfic | Thedarkfic
Choosing not to attend sister's home birth is acceptable. 👍
Boredpanda31 | Boredpanda31
Supportive but not obligated. Comfort of all matters 👍
Glittercorn111 | Glittercorn111
Setting boundaries during home birth. Respectfully declining sister's invitation.
embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop
Respectful NTA declines sister's request for home birth.
esthervanrems | esthervanrems
Giving birth as a spectator sport 🎟️. Stand your ground 💪
DinosaurDomination | DinosaurDomination
Home births are selfish and risky, NTA for standing up.
sophie_shadow | sophie_shadow
Harsh criticism for parents considering home birth 😖
redheadedjapanese | redheadedjapanese
Respectful decline of home birth invitation. NTA 👍
CircusMom247 | CircusMom247
Supportive comment: NTA. Your sister can't command you. Your comfort matters. 👏
Issyswe | Issyswe
Birth is not a spectator sport, NTA for not attending 🤷♂️
Kebar8 | Kebar8
Supportive comment on sister's unrealistic birth plan. NTA 🤰
Elegant_righthere | Elegant_righthere
Supportive comment: NTA for not attending sister's home birth.
SugarKitten28 | SugarKitten28
Privacy during childbirth is understandable, NTA. Show up later.
kingcurtist37 | kingcurtist37
Giving birth isn't a spectator sport 👀 NTA
Middle_Brilliant_70 | Middle_Brilliant_70
Respectful NTA comment defends need for personal boundaries 👏
No_Comparison6129 | No_Comparison6129
Setting boundaries during childbirth is completely acceptable. 👍
scarlettmarie22 | scarlettmarie22
Respecting personal boundaries in childbirth 👨👩👧👦
Repulsive-Worth5715 | Repulsive-Worth5715
Natural birth anxiety creates family tension, seeking attention or not?
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Respecting personal boundaries is important in birth, NTA 🙏
emfred999 | emfred999
Sibling pressure to attend home birth: NTA stands firm 👏
PeggyCarterEC | PeggyCarterEC
Respecting boundaries: NTA's experience with labor was traumatic 😢
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NTA. Fear of childbirth is real, and it shouldn't be trivialized 😕
Bobbeyjazz | Bobbeyjazz
Choosing not to attend a home birth - NTA 🙅
slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad
Safety concerns raised about home birth, asking for midwife presence 🙏
BusyTea6 | BusyTea6
Being on call for a perfect birth plan? NTA 👍
Jewsusgr8 | Jewsusgr8
Supporting a live birth is not for everyone. ✌🏻
NeedleworkerWarm2477 | NeedleworkerWarm2477
No perfect labour plan, misguided sister. Find somewhere else 🏃♀️
StrawberryPincushion | StrawberryPincushion
NTA. 🤢 Watching your sister give birth at home? Weird.
Careful-Bumblebee-10 | Careful-Bumblebee-10
Supportive comment with a touch of humor 😊
Born_Ad8420 | Born_Ad8420
Mother-to-be supported for declining unwanted birth support. 👏
Cat_tophat365247 | Cat_tophat365247
Choosing home birth over hospital birth is risky. NTA.
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Supporting a home birth isn't for everyone 👍🏻, and that's okay. Being honest is important 👌🏻. #NTA
QYB1990 | QYB1990
Experienced commenter advises against too many people during childbirth. 🙅
jecca1769 | jecca1769
Don't show up 💁♂️. Entitled b!t@h not taking you seriously.
WildRide117 | WildRide117
Support for not wanting someone other than medical professionals present 👍
Nervous_Platypus6780 | Nervous_Platypus6780
Sister's birth plan like a bridezilla's wedding day demands 👩👧👦
my_names_underhill | my_names_underhill
Birth can be traumatic and stressful. NTA for setting boundaries 🙏
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NTA. 🚼 Being reckless with baby's health. Honest about support.
Accomplished_Area311 | Accomplished_Area311
Birthzilla alert! NTA declines invite to home birth 😱
Worldly_Mirror_1555 | Worldly_Mirror_1555
NTA - Showing kids birthing videos is ew. Sister's at-home birth?
Shanisasha | Shanisasha
