I Told My 412-lb Daughter She'll 'Eat Herself to DEATH'...Now She's Skipping Our Wedding 💔

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Hey there, folks! 👋 Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we dive into the story of a 30-year-old woman facing a heart-wrenching dilemma. 💔 She's been struggling with her weight for as long as she can remember, and now, with her parents' wedding just around the corner, she's torn between her love for them and her crippling insecurities. 😰 Will she find the courage to face her fears, or will her decision tear her family apart? 😢 Buckle up, because this story is about to get real! 🎢

🎂 A Weighty Dilemma: My Parents' Wedding Woes 😰

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🍔 Overeating Origins: A Lifelong Struggle 😓

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💒 Wedding Bells Ring, But I'm Not Singing 😢

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❤️ It's Not You, It's Me: I Love My Parents 🤗

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😳 Embarrassment Overload: Facing Family and Friends 😖

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👗 Fancy Clothes, Not-So-Fancy Me 😞

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🏠 Homebody Blues: Leaving My Comfort Zone 😣

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💔 Breaking the News: A Heartfelt Apology 😔

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😡 Mom's Fury: Betrayal and Tough Love 😠

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😥 Guilt and Regret: Trying to Make Amends 😢

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Family Feud: Daughter's Weight Woes Threaten to Derail Parents' Big Day! 💍

Well, well, well... looks like we've got ourselves a real doozy of a situation here! 😳 Our protagonist, the self-proclaimed 'ugly duckling,' is caught between a rock and a hard place. On one hand, she loves her parents to bits and wants nothing more than to celebrate their special day. 💕 But on the other, the thought of facing a room full of judgy relatives and old friends has her running for the hills! 🏃‍♀️ And let's not forget the cherry on top of this drama sundae - her mom's scathing words that cut deeper than any knife. 🔪💔 So, what do you think, folks? Is our girl making the right call by skipping the wedding, or is she just digging herself into a deeper hole? Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy tale of family, feelings, and fat-shaming! 👀

Encouraging comment to attend wedding despite body image struggles 👏

ratakat | ratakat

Don't avoid living your life. Be brave and take small steps 🙏

waterwicca | waterwicca

Encouraging comment to attend wedding despite weight and mental health.

yellowjacket1996 | yellowjacket1996

Supportive comment to a bride-to-be who feels ashamed of her weight.

Empty_Discipline272 | Empty_Discipline272

Heartbreaking situation. Therapy may help unravel psychological weight issues 💔

Floriane007 | Floriane007

Heartbreaking story of a friend's struggle with weight and anxiety 😢

Jamileem | Jamileem

Recovering addict empathizes with bride but urges attendance. NAH.

GreenbriarForHire | GreenbriarForHire

A sympathetic YTA comment suggests attending the wedding despite weight.

Life_Drop69 | Life_Drop69

ESH: Commenter encourages therapy for low self-esteem, criticizes mother's harshness.

bethholler | bethholler

Overcoming insecurities and embracing self-love ❤️

IamFLuFfyBadaSs | IamFLuFfyBadaSs

Don't let fear of judgment isolate you, use this as a wakeup call to prioritize your health. 🙌

sjsyed | sjsyed

Self-conscious daughter should attend wedding to celebrate her parents 🚩

throwawayimclueless | throwawayimclueless

Advice on seeking therapy for emotional/mental struggles and finding the right therapist 👨‍🌾

Wilted_Peony | Wilted_Peony

User calls out parent for prioritizing weight over family, offers help. ❤️

Sezblue148 | Sezblue148

NTA commenter empathizes with parents and their love for daughter.

Difficult-Thought-61 | Difficult-Thought-61

A heartfelt plea for OP to seek medical and mental care ❤️

makerblue | makerblue

NTA for skipping wedding after hurtful comment. Seek therapy/dietician 💛

telmquist | telmquist

Mom's comments are vile, NTA for skipping wedding due to hardship.

lonedroan | lonedroan

Insightful comment on the potential relationship between mental health and weight.

Solid_Breadfruit_585 | Solid_Breadfruit_585

Mother's harsh comment receives criticism from commenters. 😞

violue | violue

Choose your own happiness and don't let fear hold you back ♥

Available_Top_7578 | Available_Top_7578

Supportive comment suggests weight loss group and offers encouragement ❤️

reluctant-rheubarb | reluctant-rheubarb

Parent's rude comments, but OP too nonchalant about health risks. 💔

ThePeasantKingM | ThePeasantKingM

Overweight commenter sympathizes with bride and advises seeking medical help.

Soft-Gold-7979 | Soft-Gold-7979

OP is called out for selfish behavior. YTA confirmed 🤢

snowglobeman47271 | snowglobeman47271

Encouraging support for someone struggling with weight and family issues 👍

happybanana134 | happybanana134

Obesity is an illness, ESH for lack of support and communication 😢

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Chronic pain sufferer offers support and encouragement to OP ♥️

bmidontcare | bmidontcare

Former 400-lb Redditor empathizes with bride, deems parent YTA.

moofable | moofable

Empathetic comment encourages self-love and attending wedding despite insecurities. ❤️

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Compassionate comment urges prioritizing mental and physical health ❤️

Betterin2021 | Betterin2021

Wedding day is about the couple, not your insecurities. 👏

sayinne | sayinne

Parents' hurtful reaction to daughter's weight causes wedding strife. 💔

CiaraSmiles | CiaraSmiles

Person calls out OP for skipping wedding due to embarrassment

Internal_Progress404 | Internal_Progress404

Supportive comment encourages seeking help for mental and medical issues ❤️

SnooDucks7885 | SnooDucks7885

Encouraging comment to embrace self-worth and enjoy the wedding ❤

snotrocket2space | snotrocket2space

Overcoming obesity: advice on finding a weight loss solution 💪

chawalana | chawalana

Empowering comment urging OP to love themselves and seek help 👏

ChardRealismo37415 | ChardRealismo37415

"Small changes can make a big difference" - inspiring weight loss journey 💪

Possible_Try_7400 | Possible_Try_7400

Deserving self-love: Supportive comment encourages therapy for self-worth.

EuphorbiasOddities | EuphorbiasOddities

Overcoming shame and improving self-image is key to health. 💪

NiceButton7 | NiceButton7

Encouraging comment, offering support and resources to improve health 🙌

Tight_Horse2222 | Tight_Horse2222

Encouraging response to weight-shaming comment with practical advice.

Wingardiumis | Wingardiumis

Parent's lack of compassion leads to child skipping wedding. NTA

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Formerly obese commenter sympathizes with OP, suggests weight loss surgery. ❤️

anewlifeandhealth | anewlifeandhealth

Supportive comment suggests therapy for OP's mental health and weight loss

aultflowergirl | aultflowergirl

Choosing your mental health over your daughter's wedding. NTA 🙌

Quiet_Party_5156 | Quiet_Party_5156

NTA regrets missing the wedding, mom's insults are disgusting 😡

QueenQueerBen | QueenQueerBen

Encouraging message to attend wedding and start healthy journey 💪

Wooden_Albatross_832 | Wooden_Albatross_832

Encouraging comment for self-care and therapy, suggests avoiding toxic family.

Upper-File462 | Upper-File462

A compassionate response acknowledging the OP's struggles. ❤️

sweetestlorraine | sweetestlorraine

Struggling with weight and self-control, commenter supports OP's honesty. NTA 👏

SuperPoodie92477 | SuperPoodie92477

A compassionate comment suggesting underlying mental health issues and offering understanding and support.

Mouse589 | Mouse589

The emotional toll of being overweight and judged by others.

cutiepatutie614 | cutiepatutie614

Encouraging comment to seek psychiatric help for self-loathing and anxiety 👍

Sad-Ad8901 | Sad-Ad8901

Supportive comment section for OP's difficult situation 🙏

griz3lda | griz3lda

A compassionate comment recognizing the emotional toll of the situation.

AtmosphereOk6072 | AtmosphereOk6072

Encouraging comment to seek help for weight and mental health.

Competitive_Chef_188 | Competitive_Chef_188

Supportive comment urges help for weight and mental health 🙏

Saiyan-b | Saiyan-b

Overweight commenter relates to bride, supports her decision to skip wedding 👏

WolfInWolfClothing22 | WolfInWolfClothing22

Virtual hug and advice to seek help from a therapist.

effinnxrighttt | effinnxrighttt

Encouraging advice for weight loss and attending parents' wedding. 💪

opelan | opelan

NTA comment empathizes with OP's struggles with weight and self-esteem.

islandrenaissance | islandrenaissance

Take charge of your health and life. Don't be YTA.

Ma-Hu | Ma-Hu

Tips for discussing sensitive topics with a new therapist 🙌

salvagemania | salvagemania

NTA. Weight shouldn't stop you from doing things you don't want to.

QuickMoodFlippy | QuickMoodFlippy

Encouraging response recommending therapy and weight loss threads.

P0OHead | P0OHead

Supportive reply encourages therapy for eating disorder and trauma.

Capable_Diamond_5375 | Capable_Diamond_5375

Encouraging comment, promoting therapy and self-love. 👏

Specialist_Passage83 | Specialist_Passage83

Encouraging response to NTA comment advocating for self-care and counseling.

Shells613 | Shells613

Empathetic reply from someone who has been there.

CarpeBurger | CarpeBurger

Supportive comment suggests seeking help for trauma and weight management.

stayonthecloud | stayonthecloud

Encouraging response to NTA's difficult family situation ❤️

Kaiya6 | Kaiya6

Supportive comment urges OP to seek therapy for eating disorders.

SignsPaintedPeaches | SignsPaintedPeaches

Encouraging comment offers support for bride's difficult situation.

crossingguardcrush | crossingguardcrush

Compassionate comment offers support in the face of cruelty ❤️

CloudPanda_ | CloudPanda_

Encouraging response to NTA's emotional situation with empathetic advice.

Lululorayne | Lululorayne

Binge eating disorder is a genuine coping mechanism, deserving recovery 💜

mysterypurplesock | mysterypurplesock

Suggests seeking mental health help for serious eating disorder 🙏

dreamingzombie | dreamingzombie

Skipping the wedding of a mean mother, NTA 🙌

annang | annang

Supportive comment towards OP and criticism towards negative commenters ❤️

withalittlecatdog | withalittlecatdog

Virtual hugs and therapy can help overcome insecurities. 👍

Keni-b2211 | Keni-b2211

A heartfelt reply empathizing with the commenter's situation.

littlefiddle05 | littlefiddle05

Weight shouldn't stop you from being there for your parents 👍

BeenTooNice | BeenTooNice

NTA for wanting to skip the wedding, but ESH for not taking charge of your weight problem. Your mother was cruel, but she's watching you slowly unalive yourself. It's time to make a stand against your insecurity.

Outside-Ad-1677 | Outside-Ad-1677

Take control of your health for your own comfort. 💪

jessicaconqueso | jessicaconqueso

Putting your feelings above hers: YTA, says commenter.

ThinkCow83 | ThinkCow83

Encouraging comment urges OP to seek professional help and attend wedding

ncslazar7 | ncslazar7

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