🎉 Meet the Party Planner Extraordinaire! 🎂 For the past 15 years, she's been the go-to gal for all the family's celebrations. 🥳 But here's the twist: not once has anyone returned the favor for her birthday! 😢 This year, things took a turn for the worse when her own mother asked her to cook and plan her brother's party, thinking he was depressed (spoiler alert: he's not, he just doesn't want to quit smoking weed for a job 🌿). When her birthday rolled around, crickets. 🦗 No happy birthday, just her mom hanging out with her brother and SIL. 😞 Her hubby came through with a gift, but she's left wondering: is it too much to ask for one day to be about her? 🤔
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😢 15 Years of Forgotten Birthdays 🎈
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🍳 Cooking Up a Storm for Bro's Party 🥳
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🌿 Bro's Blunt Confession 💨
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🎂 My Forgotten Birthday Blues 😞
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💝 Hubby to the Rescue 🎁
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🙏 Not Trying to Be Greedy, Just Want Some Love ❤️
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🎉 Bro Demands a Party for SIL 🎊
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😡 Bro's Temper Tantrum 🤬
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🎂 Accused of Ruining SIL's Special Day 😒
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😩 Tired of Trying, Ready to Give Up 😞
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😢 Depressed by Family's Neglect 💔
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😠 Labeled as the Selfish B*tch for Standing Up for Myself 🙅♀️
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🤔 AITA for Stopping the Special Day Train? 🚂
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🎉 The Party Planner's Rebellion: No More Special Days for Ungrateful Fam! 😤
The party planner extraordinaire has had enough! 😤 Her brother demanded she throw a party for his wife's birthday, but she put her foot down and said no. 🙅♀️ Cue the temper tantrum from bro, accusing her of being mean and ruining SIL's special day out of spite. 😡 But it's more than that – she's tired of being forgotten until they need something, and then being labeled as a selfish b*tch when she stands up for herself. 😢 It's seriously depressing her. 💔 So, is she the a-hole for putting an end to the special day train? 🚂 Let's see what the internet has to say about this family drama! 🍿
Taking a stand! 🙌 No more party planning for them.
markroth69 | markroth69
Don't let entitled family members ruin your self-care routine! 🙅♀️
porridgepolice | porridgepolice
Lazy brother gets called out for not appreciating party planner 💪
somebody_you_knew | somebody_you_knew
NTA stands strong against family's lack of appreciation 💪
dropdrill | dropdrill
Standing up to family and setting boundaries. #NTA 🙌
Mera1506 | Mera1506
Setting boundaries is normal and healthy. You go, NTA! 🎉
DormantDormaus | DormantDormaus
Family taking her for granted, brother should handle wife's party 👍
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Being an unpaid party organizer? NTA. Time to step back 👏
00Lisa00 | 00Lisa00
No more parties for them! You deserve better 🎉
Mirianda666 | Mirianda666
Stop being taken for granted, speak up, and stay consistent! 💯
RollingKatamari | RollingKatamari
Set boundaries and stand up for yourself! 💪
Sad-Youth6847 | Sad-Youth6847
Setting boundaries with family, NTA takes no BS 👊
PolitePineapple | PolitePineapple
Birthdays forgotten, now just plan for household. NTA 🚫
deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau
Resign as party planner officially and focus on your family 🙌
pieridaered | pieridaered
Birthdays are special, expecting a simple wish isn't selfish 🎂
A_Brit_Abroad | A_Brit_Abroad
Family neglects birthday, commenter warns it will get worse.
Obligation_Tall | Obligation_Tall
Working mom and farmer stands up to entitled family 👏
Illustrious-Band-537 | Illustrious-Band-537
No appreciation for party planning, SIL should find new friends 🚫
sherlockhound5 | sherlockhound5
Encouraging comment suggests therapy to deal with family toxicity. 👏
ducktruck27 | ducktruck27
Block their numbers and skip the party 🚫 🎉
raspberrycheesecake1 | raspberrycheesecake1
Don't let them walk all over you. NO MORE! 🚫 NTA
Mysterious-Winter616 | Mysterious-Winter616
Standing up for yourself is not being an a**hole 👏
Kindly_bean | Kindly_bean
Brother's entitlement appalling, tell him to get lost 🤪
Capuch4 | Capuch4
Take charge of your own celebration! 🎂🎉
Rage-Parrot | Rage-Parrot
Don't let the mental load drain you. You've done enough. 🚫
MPBoomBoom22 | MPBoomBoom22
Setting boundaries is important. Don't let anyone abuse your kindness. 🙏
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Empathizing with OP's decision to stop planning family parties 👍
ilovestreettacos | ilovestreettacos
Family forgets her birthday but expects her to plan events. NTA 🚫
Livid_Huckleberry_28 | Livid_Huckleberry_28
Don't be the family party planner if it's not appreciated 🚫
haihalreadytaken | haihalreadytaken
Don't let them manipulate you! You're not a doormat 🚫
JohnChapter11Verse35 | JohnChapter11Verse35
Stop planning family events after 15 years of entitlement. NTA 👍
kostis12345 | kostis12345
Hosting without help? NTA for quitting family parties 🚫
aquasaurex | aquasaurex
Don't be a doormat, stand up for yourself! NTA 👏
mountcrappish | mountcrappish
Don't let them walk all over you. You deserve better 💪
thrilling_me_softly | thrilling_me_softly
No more parties! 🙅♀️ This NTA had enough of the work.
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Celebrate yourself and forget toxic family. NTA 🎂
architeuthiswfng | architeuthiswfng
Putting effort into others' birthdays, got cheap alcohol for hers. 😠
RoseKaioh | RoseKaioh
Stop wasting time and energy on unappreciative family members 🚫
Ok-Beginning-5922 | Ok-Beginning-5922
Stand up for yourself and stop being a doormat. 💪
Whocaresevenadamn | Whocaresevenadamn
Set boundaries with entitled family, treat yourself 👏
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Retirement party for the party planner 🎉
SereniaKat | SereniaKat
Setting boundaries is tough, but NTA for doing it 🚩
Anthophyllitic | Anthophyllitic
Fair is fair. NTA for not planning family parties anymore 🚫
eyespy_01 | eyespy_01
Setting healthy boundaries is important for self-care 👍
Therowan26 | Therowan26
Stand up for yourself, but expect some pushback from family 👏
Squidjit89 | Squidjit89
Plan your own flippin' birthdays, rock on with your self! 😎 NTA.
Bookstax | Bookstax
Spouse outsourcing celebrations to sibling? Not cool. 🤨
SnowWhiteCampCat | SnowWhiteCampCat
Planning parties is a*hole work. NTA for stepping down.
UnhappyCryptographer | UnhappyCryptographer
Setting boundaries is crucial for self-care. You're NTA 👏
gestaltdude | gestaltdude
Forgetting my birthday? No cash for your presents either! 👍
Chimur | Chimur
Fair decision to stop planning events after being forgotten. NTA 👍
Ohcrumbcakes | Ohcrumbcakes
Family forgot her birthday, commenter suggests going no contact. 😡
beez8383 | beez8383
Take that! NTA suggests payback for forgetful family members 💯
Mundane_Ad9739 | Mundane_Ad9739
Family forgets her birthday, NTA for refusing to plan parties.
DocSternau | DocSternau
15 years of party planning without appreciation? NTA 🚫
Stab_mehh | Stab_mehh
It's about time you put yourself first! 💯 You go, NTA!
dwassell73 | dwassell73
Breaking the cycle of family entitlement 💪
renwizzle | renwizzle
Set boundaries and let them plan their own parties. #NTA 🎉
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Take back control and celebrate yourself! 🎂🎉
dca_user | dca_user
Don't let them take advantage of your kindness! 🙏🏼 NTA
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Brother should plan a party for his own wife! NTA 🙌
SallyFairmile | SallyFairmile
Birthdays are important, and it hurts to be forgotten. #NTA
subrhythm | subrhythm
Stand up for yourself, it's hard but worth it! 💪
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NTA. Family taking you for granted? Stand up for yourself! 👏
mariogoodboy | mariogoodboy
Family should appreciate you. It's time to set boundaries! 👏
Warriorwitch79 | Warriorwitch79
Challenging the status quo can be uncomfortable but necessary 🤔
TheMostBrokenBoy | TheMostBrokenBoy
A heartwarming NTA comment about a thoughtful spouse ❤️
Failr0ko | Failr0ko
Take a break, don't let them take you for granted 🚫
Woobsie81 | Woobsie81
NTA, stand up for yourself and cut toxic ties 💪🏻
lilyjo1989 | lilyjo1989
No obligation to be the family planner. NTA 👏
AUGirl1999 | AUGirl1999
