Wife SKIPS Funeral for Ex's Stepchild & Stillborn After His Affair - AITA? 😱💔

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Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a story for you today. 😳 Our leading lady, a 41-year-old divorcée, finds herself in quite the pickle when her cheating ex-husband's new life takes a tragic turn. 💔 With a planned trip on the horizon and an unexpected funeral invite, she's left wondering what the right move is. 🤔 Should she put her life on hold for the man who broke her heart? 💔 Or should she carry on with her plans and let him deal with the consequences of his actions? 🤷‍♀️ Let's dive in and see how this messy situation unfolds! 🍿

💔 Ex-Husband's Tragic Loss 😢

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🏥 More Heartbreak Strikes 💔

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😔 Feeling Bad, But Keeping Distance 🚫

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🗣️ News Through the Grapevine 🍇

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🌴 Planned Trip to Escape Empty Nest 🐣

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⚰️ Unexpected Funeral Invite 😳

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🙅‍♀️ Ex's New Woman Wouldn't Want Me There 😬

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😡 I'd Turn Violent in Her Shoes 👠

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🙅‍♀️ Stopped Caring When He Cheated 💔

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🎭 Avoiding Potential Drama 😒

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🙅‍♀️ Respecting His Girlfriend's Grief 😢

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😤 Ex Upset Over Kids' Absence 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

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🤷‍♀️ Encouraging Kids to Attend, But... 😕

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🏝️ Proceeding with Planned Trip ✈️

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📞 Ex's Angry Accusations 😠

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😱 Ex's Double Tragedy Leads to Funeral Drama! 💀

Well, well, well... looks like our leading lady's ex-husband is facing some serious heartbreak. 💔 With the loss of his stepson and a stillborn child, he's reaching out to his ex-wife for support. 🙏 But our girl isn't having it! 🙅‍♀️ She's got a trip planned and no intention of getting sucked into the drama. 🌴 Even their grown kids are steering clear of the funeral. 😬 Now, the ex is blowing up her phone, accusing her of being heartless and turning the kids against him. 😡 Talk about a mess! 🙈 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy situation... 🍿

No relationship, no obligation. NTA 👍

music_lover273 | music_lover273

NTA. Ex-husband can't take his grief out on you or your children. 👍

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Age difference in relationship raises eyebrows - NTA judgement

bijanku | bijanku

Ex's inappropriate invite after affair & divorce - NTA 🚫

nopecakes | nopecakes

Don't let him guilt-trip you, you're NTA 👍

Lilyinshadows | Lilyinshadows

Ex cheated, expects sympathy for new family. NTA. Keep blocking.

wattpanda | wattpanda

Autonomous kids, grieving ex, and crossing the line 😱💔

JJSec | JJSec

Block him! Why the f**k is he looking you up on FB during this time???!!

LastDevelopment3 | LastDevelopment3

No obligation to support ex's problems. NTA 👍

grumpyspudgal | grumpyspudgal

No obligation to attend ex's stepchild's funeral - NTA 👍

ooh_shinyobject | ooh_shinyobject

No obligation to attend funeral of ex's stepchild. NTA. 👍

Moo_Moo_Mr_Cow | Moo_Moo_Mr_Cow

No obligation to attend ex's family tragedy. NTA 👍

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Betrayal has consequences. NTA for setting boundaries 👍

greywings1 | greywings1

Attending funeral of ex's stepchild: NTA, it's your prerogative. 🙏

pixelatednarcissist | pixelatednarcissist

Ex upset over ex-wife's absence at funeral - NTA response

glom4ever | glom4ever

Ex's inappropriate invitation and demands, NTA for declining. 👏

Carliebeans | Carliebeans

Setting boundaries with ex-partners after a breakup. 📹

velvetsummernights | velvetsummernights

Not the a-hole for not attending the funeral.

BURNERINO12345 | BURNERINO12345

No obligation to attend. Don't let him drain you emotionally. 💪

stunning-stasis | stunning-stasis

Self-care matters. NTA for prioritizing your mental health 👍

AnarchyAcid | AnarchyAcid

Ex's children are adults. NTA for skipping funeral. 👍

strictlybex | strictlybex

Ex cheated, no support needed. NTA. 👏

Purdygreen | Purdygreen

No obligation to attend, NTA - ex made his choice 👍

Kiki01234 | Kiki01234

Ex regrets affair, takes it out on OP. NTA 👌

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Respectful NTA chooses kids over ex's stepchild funeral drama 👏

CrazyinLull | CrazyinLull

Ex's request to send his children to funeral is inappropriate. NTA 👍

petitepedestrian | petitepedestrian

Encourage open communication with your kids & prioritize your mental health. NTA 👍

A_Sarcastic_Werecat | A_Sarcastic_Werecat

Skipping funeral for ex's stepchild and stillborn. NTA, be true to yourself.

randomfirefly | randomfirefly

Supportive comment with sound reasoning and empathy. 👍

AskingLeslie | AskingLeslie

Family ties broken: NTA and estrangement from father.

Athenacosplay | Athenacosplay

You're not the a**hole, he's regretting his mistakes. 💁‍♀️

lizzyote | lizzyote

Advice on keeping ex away from personal life 👍

addamsfamilyoracle | addamsfamilyoracle

Ex's affair partner expects sympathy from the person she wronged. 🙄

gailn323 | gailn323

NTA for skipping funeral of ex's stepchild and stillborn.

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NTA for skipping funeral of ex's stepchild & stillborn 😱💔

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Ex's husband lashes out, but NTA for skipping funeral.

NYCQuilts | NYCQuilts

NTA. Sympathy can't be expected after laying waste to life ✨

forceofslugyuk | forceofslugyuk

Redditors agree that this post is a no-brainer - NTA 👍

Alburg9000 | Alburg9000

Ex-wife stands up for herself, says NTA 👍

mangonlime | mangonlime

No relationship, no obligation. NTA. Narcissists never change. 🙌

dovakinda | dovakinda

Ex's inappropriate invite to funeral, NTA for declining. 🙅‍♀️

ftjlster | ftjlster

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself - NTA 👏

drkrthnthspeedofliht | drkrthnthspeedofliht

Not responsible for grown children's relationships. NTA 👍

BarnyardNitemare | BarnyardNitemare

Avoiding ex's drama after his loss - NTA 👌

Worried-Spaniard | Worried-Spaniard

Ex's stepchild & stillborn, NTA for not attending funeral. 👍

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NTA for skipping funeral, he needs to leave you alone 👍

tapiocatsar | tapiocatsar

Divorce is a blissful escape from a narcissistic cheating ex 👌

sydneyunderfoot | sydneyunderfoot

Cheaters never prosper 👌

Waybide | Waybide

Agreeing with NTA comment about cheating and consequences. 👍

BeekNS | BeekNS

Ex cheated, left for younger woman & blames OP. NTA 💯

stayorgo_ | stayorgo_

Supportive comment with no replies. You're not the a**hole.

drnels | drnels

Cutting ties with exes is important - YTA for expecting attendance.

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Putting yourself and your kids first is never an a**hole move 👏

DrakeMustBeSad | DrakeMustBeSad

Ex's entitlement is laughable. NTA for not cancelling trip.

deansterW | deansterW

Assertive reply shuts down judgement, zero replies needed. 👏

drdrillaz | drdrillaz

Ex's delusions don't deserve your attention. Live your best life 👌

The_Amazing_Username | The_Amazing_Username

Move on, change number, and enjoy life. He made his bed. 👍

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Ex-husband drama? NTA, your family, your life 💯

graemevsworld | graemevsworld

Cutting ties with ex's infidelity - NTA 👍

AnxiousMom4 | AnxiousMom4

Ex-husband is an a**hole for guilting her and asking for emotional support during his affair partner's loss. NTA 👏

old__pyrex | old__pyrex

Ex is the a**hole for harassing her after cheating. NTA 👏

Boopsthereitis | Boopsthereitis

Choosing not to attend ex's stepchild's funeral - NTA.

adotfree | adotfree

Ex's insensitive invitation to funeral - NTA for declining 👍

txwildcard12 | txwildcard12

Supporting an ex's stepchild is optional - NTA 👍

sushi_with_an_n | sushi_with_an_n

Ex's stepchild's funeral and stillborn, NTA for not attending. 👍

WabbitFan | WabbitFan

No sympathy for cheaters. 👏

MaaDFoXX | MaaDFoXX

Cheating husband expects emotional support, commenter supports NTA. 👍

mdisomwnaje | mdisomwnaje

Skipping the funeral was the right thing to do. NTA 👍

HRHArgyll | HRHArgyll

Ex-spouse skips funeral, but is not at fault - NTA 👍

cwg-crysania | cwg-crysania

No sympathy for cheating ex's stepchild funeral? 🤔🤷‍♀️

t4r4h | t4r4h

Ex's behavior after affair was wrong, NTA for not attending funeral 👏

MandeeLess | MandeeLess

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