Working Wife SLAMS Stay-at-Home Moms for "CONDESCENDING" Treatment! 😠💼

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🏳️‍🌈 Buckle up, folks! This story is a wild ride through the world of apartment complex politics and the age-old battle of the SAHMs vs. the working moms... with a lesbian twist! 😱 Our protagonist, a hardworking lady in a loving relationship, finds herself caught in the middle of a gender-segregated social scene that just won't quit. 🙅‍♀️ Get ready for some serious drama, miscommunication, and a sprinkle of humor as we dive into this tale of neighborly nonsense! 🍿

🏠 New Apartment, New Drama! 😱

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🍷 The SAHM Clique 👀

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🎉 Gender-Segregated Gatherings? 🙅‍♀️

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😷 Pandemic Respite... But Not for Long! 😅

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🍽️ Dinner Party Drama 🍴

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🤷‍♀️ The Designated "Wife" 🙋‍♀️

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😤 Frustration Builds 😠

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🤔 Confusion Ensues 😕

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🗣️ Communication Breakdown 📞

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😲 "Condescending" Confrontation 😳

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🚗 Parking Garage Encounter 🅿️

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😂 Husband's Humorous Take 🤣

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🤷‍♀️ Was I the A-hole? 🙋‍♀️

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🌈 Lesbian vs. SAHM: The Ultimate Showdown! 🥊

Well, well, well... it seems our leading lady has found herself in quite the pickle! 😅 Navigating the treacherous waters of apartment complex politics is no easy feat, especially when you're a working lesbian mom in a sea of traditional SAHMs. 🌊 Despite her best efforts to communicate clearly and share responsibilities with her wife, our protagonist keeps getting lumped into the "wife" role by the cliquey SAHMs. 😒 One miscommunication leads to a "condescending" confrontation, and suddenly the whole complex is buzzing with drama! 🐝 Even the husband gets involved, revealing his own a-holery in the process. 🙊 But the real question is... was our leading lady the a-hole in this situation? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy tale of gender roles, communication breakdowns, and neighborly nonsense! 🍿

Choosing family events based on fun, not obligation. NTA.

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Breaking heteronormative stereotypes with a fiery NTA comment 💯

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Lesbian commenter finds stay-at-home moms unbearable to socialize with.

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Breaking gender roles causing tension in traditional families. NTA.

sharpcarnival | sharpcarnival

Stay-at-home moms judged by working wife. NTA!

pennywhistlesmoonpie | pennywhistlesmoonpie

SAHMs think you look down on them. Try to connect. NTA.

Technical-Bite | Technical-Bite

A comment suggests a different perspective. 🤔

Woke_dickbeater | Woke_dickbeater

Man disagrees with Stay-at-Home Mom's condescension complaint. 🤔

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Sensible response to outdated situation in apartment block. 💯

CarpeCyprinidae | CarpeCyprinidae

SAHM explains OPs situation and advises on social nuances. 🤔

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User calls out working wife for condescending attitude towards SAHMs.

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SAHM vs. Working Moms debate: Is it a gender issue?

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Gay man defends working couple against regressive gender roles. NTA.

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Wife accused of being overly sensitive by commenters. 🤷‍♀️

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Misunderstanding with SAHM, but NAH and clear the air 👍

deathbymoas | deathbymoas

Defending a comment on stay-at-home moms being condescending 👍

indigbogwitch | indigbogwitch

NTA criticized for condescending language towards SAHMs 👍

Ohcrumbcakes | Ohcrumbcakes

Engaging with others and building relationships is key, YTA. 😊

TooManyKids_Man | TooManyKids_Man

Confusion over stay-at-home moms' gender roles causes tension.

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SAHM criticized for being condescending towards working wives. NAH.

FireflyInTheLight | FireflyInTheLight

Judgmental working wife called out for condescending attitude towards SAHMs.

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Organizing activities with a single point of contact 📱 vs. event by event basis🤔. OP was TA 😕

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A comment suggesting re-examining living in a strange complex.

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NTA calls out closed-minded judgment of stay-at-home mom.

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Don't define stay-at-home moms by one choice; see them as individuals 👩🏻‍🍳

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Stay-at-home mom criticized for condescending treatment, defended by commenter.

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Misogyny at home? Engage with different perspectives, move on.

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Neighbours' drama escalates in this ESH comment section! 😬

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Redditor calls out OP for looking down on SAHMs. YTA verdict.

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Defending equality in household tasks. NTA 👏

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A commenter calls out the working wife for projecting gender views 😬

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YTA accused of looking down on SAHMs who tried to include them 🤔

Throwawaydaughter555 | Throwawaydaughter555

Advice on navigating social dynamics of stay-at-home moms group. 👍

neonfuzzball | neonfuzzball

Apologize for condescension and find a nicer way to communicate 💬

BigOlPurrPurr | BigOlPurrPurr

Shared responsibilities make condescending stay-at-home moms annoying. 😑

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When relating to others, don't judge their experiences. 👍

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Tension flares as working wife called out for judging SAHMs 😠

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SAHM's job is thankless, but worth it for community & family. Husband is insensitive.

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Polite interaction is possible without condescension towards SAHMs. 👍

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Breaking out of boxes: bridging the SAHM divide. 🙌

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Former working woman turned stay-at-home mom shares advice for gender segregation.

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Breaking gender norms: NTA for not conforming to outdated expectations 👏

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Misunderstood tone? NTA, but does OP hate stay-at-home moms? 🤔

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SAHMs have a tough, isolating job; OP comes off condescending. NAH.

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A non-straight stay-at-home mom supports NTA's perspective.

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SAHM culture can be intimidating, but try to get to know individuals 👍

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Wife's work is unclear, commenter supports husband's actions. NTA. 👍

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Former stay-at-home mom defends author's non-condescending stance 👏

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Unity over division, let's all sit together 🙌

tezzmosis | tezzmosis

Gender roles and labels can be a sensitive topic. 🤔

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Neighbor advises to avoid involvement with condescending stay-at-home moms. 🚫

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NTA points out traditional women's Stepford wives behavior 👍

Red-Mary | Red-Mary

Breaking gender norms in parenting leads to judgment and exclusion 😠

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Gender-segregated rooms? 😕 commenter supports NTA's response to condescension accusation.

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NTA but tone could be warmer. Professors repeating syllabus vibes 😐

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Straight ally defends frustrated working wife against heteronormativity. 🏳️‍🌈

zhezhijian | zhezhijian

Gender segregation at gatherings is outdated and uncomfortable. NTA.

FirstFarmOnTheLeft | FirstFarmOnTheLeft

NTA but watch the condescension in your interactions with them 😏

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Defending a working wife against stay-at-home moms' condescension. 👏

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Suggests hosting mixed event to bridge the gap 😊

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Gendered parties are outdated and unwelcoming, NTA stands against it.

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Navigating mom cliques: Hang out with the dads instead! 👨🏻‍👨🏻‍👦🙋

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Sharing duties in a relationship is fair. NTA 👏

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"Mixed conversations are much better than stereotypical 'guy' talk" 👍

oldcreaker | oldcreaker

NTA, but find better friends! These suburban WAGs sound exhausting 😅

redcore4 | redcore4

Confusion over why a SAHM finds it condescending. 🤔

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Breaking gender roles: One woman's take on stay-at-home moms.

Mimosa_usagi | Mimosa_usagi

Feeling stuck between generations, but system works. Other wives onboard!

iesharael | iesharael

Breaking gender role stereotypes challenges their lifestyle structure. NTA!

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Mommy groups are hell 😠💼, switching off duties isn't confusing. NTA.

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Don't get too close to your neighbors, it's not worth it 👍

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